Psychotherapist Reveals How to Set Healthy Boundaries & Stop Getting Pushed Around | Terri Cole (#468)

Terri Cole (IG: @terricole) is a New York-based, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert and founder of Real Love Revolution.

Today we’re discussing her book, Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free.

Stick around and learn how to set healthy boundaries which will transform your relationship with yourself and your relationships with others.

Watch the full video version of this conversation below.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The concept of boundaries
• The process of self-awareness
• The OK vs. not OK exercise
• What is your boundary archetype?
• How to address workplace boundaries in a healthy way
• Creating a proactive boundary success plan
• Simply say “no”
• You don’t need to problem-solve for others
• How do we shift our relationship with fear
• Setting boundaries + how to handle reactions
• The fear of change
• The catalyst for change in relationships
• Make a simple request
• Setting our own internal boundaries
• The resentment effect
• Revealing the secondary gain
• Good boundaries vs. disordered boundaries
• Physical manifestations of having disordered boundaries
• Create a boundary blueprint
• Living an authentic life
• Teaching kids age-appropriate boundaries
• How your family system impacts your boundaries

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Related links:

Terri Cole – Boundary Boss (book)
Terri Cole’s website
Follow Terri Cole on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube
The Terri Cole Podcast
Take the Free Boundary Style Quiz
Dr. Harriet Lerner (books)

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